We're not talking about face time on your phone, but actual, face-to-face conversations with your spouse. This may seem like an old-school concept, but it's still pretty important in your relationship, according to Dr. Jenn Mann, host of VH1's Couple's Therapy. "One key issue for women who cheated is having enough time. 13 Mar Some women turn to infidelity not as a way to explode a marriage but as a way to stay in it, and some experts see it as a subversion of traditional gender roles. In The Secret Life of the Cheating Wife: Power, Pragmatism, and Pleasure in Women's Infidelity, another book on infidelity to be published this. 13 Jul Truth is, just like men, many women cheat. Dated an older man/woman. Talked to my ex. Had Sex Tasted Alcohol Other: To catch a cheating wife, then, all a man needs to do is study and cram his woman's menstrual cycle and keenly observe how she behaves during the cheating window. We have.